What About Him? The sin of comparison (John 21:15-23)
- Today let’s focus in on two questions in this passage. Jesus’s questions to Peter, and Peter’s question to Jesus.
- Jesus asks the first question, “Do you truly love me?” (NIV)
- Many translations render it “Do you love me more than these?”
- In the Greek the word is “these” and there is some ambiguity.
- That ambiguity may be intentional on Jesus’ part.
- Jesus is probably referring to the other disciples, or do you love me more than they do?
- Jesus may also be referring to other things, perhaps Jesus was referring to the fish.
- This would have been meant to symbolize Peter’s livelihood of fishing.
- Jesus gets to ask this question because he has already proven His love by dying on the cross.
- Jesus is beginning the process of restoring Peter, and this whole scene is about grace, love, and restoration.
- Jesus’ question is getting at the three things that can interfere with our relationship with Him.
- First, people and relationships.
- Jesus is asking do you love me more than these other disciples, or more than they do?
- Are there human relationships that interfere and take away from our love and relationship with Jesus?
- Second, work, occupation, money
- Jesus may also have been referring to the fish and therefore Peter’s job as a fisherman.
- We all know that work certainly has a way of interfering with our relationship with Jesus.
- Third, persecution/difficulty
- It was after all persecution that caused Peter to disown Jesus three times.
- And just like Peter, we often allow persecution or difficulty to interfere with our love for Jesus.
- Many translations render it “Do you love me more than these?”
Continuing: Jesus restores Peter three times because Peter disowned Jesus three times.
- The third time Peter is hurt by the question because he doesn’t see or understand the powerful thing that Jesus is doing through this restoration process.
- Peter and Jesus are not using the same word for love in this interchange.
Verses 18-19 In these two verses Jesus tells Peter what kind of persecution and death he will suffer.
- But then Jesus says follow me. The only path through this is to follow Jesus closely.
Verse 20 Now we see Peter’s question. It is a question of comparison.
- Jesus’s question was one of love. Rooted in grace and pushing toward restoration.
- Peter’s question is one of comparison. Rooted in fear, scarcity, and lack of trust.
Verses 22 When Jesus says, “If I want him to remain alive until I return” He is saying I have the power to do that.
- When Jesus says, “what is that to you,” He is basically saying, it’s not for you to know about this other guy.
- Jesus ends with, “You must follow me,” Jesus is getting Peter to focus not on his own relationship with God.
- This is a word to all of us. We each must follow Jesus, for ourselves.
- We should also not and cannot compare ourselves with others.